accepting or passing an invite
When someone with a spare room thinks you’d fit, their invite lands in your inbox. Here’s what to do with it.
your invites inbox
Invites are sorted into three tabs:
- pending — new, waiting on you
- accepted — the ones you’ve said yes to
- expired — invites that timed out before you got to them
accept or pass
Open a pending invite to see who it’s from, their home and their note. Then:
- accept — a chat opens and you start talking, like any match
- pass — it disappears, quietly. The other side just moves on; no awkward “no thanks” to write
No rush and no pressure — but invites can expire, so the good ones are worth a look while they’re fresh. You’re always the one who decides.
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