starting or joining a flock

A flock starts from people who already clicked, and grows only when everyone agrees.

starting one

When you’ve matched with another seeker you’d want to search alongside, you can turn that match into a flock from your chat. That’s it — you’re now looking for a place as a duo.

adding someone

To bring a third (or fourth) person in, one member proposes someone — and it has to be someone they’ve matched with. A card posts in the flock chat, and every current member has to say yes. Only on a unanimous yes does the new person join.

a couple of fair-play rules

• you can only propose your own match — no adding strangers
• you can’t propose someone who’s blocked, or been blocked by, anyone in the flock
• whoever joins starts fresh: new members never see messages from before they joined

Once you’re in, here’s how flock settings work.