what happens when you match

updated 21 July 2026

A match is loro’s green light: it means you liked each other, not just that one of you slid into an inbox.

how it happens

When you vibe someone and they’ve vibed you back — or do later — that’s a match. The moment it lands, a chat opens between you.

match first, then message

On loro you can’t message someone until you’ve matched. That’s deliberate: it means every conversation is one both people chose, so there are no cold messages and no wading through unwanted ones. Fewer chats, warmer ones.

From there it’s yours to run — say hi, feel it out, and if you click, keep going. Here’s how chatting works. Matched with someone you’d search with? Turn it into a flock.

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