can i change my answers later?

updated 21 July 2026

Anytime. Your profile isn’t a form you fill in once and it’s set — it’s meant to move as you do.

what you can change

Everything that isn’t your identity:

  • your prompts — swap an answer whenever a better one comes to you
  • your habit sliders — sleep, social energy, tidiness, guests
  • your anthem and photos
  • your dealbreakers and what you’re looking for

Head to me → edit profile, make the change, and it’s live. No re-approval, no waiting.

edits change your matches

Because matching runs on what’s in your profile, an edit doesn’t just update how you look — it updates who you fit. Tighten a dealbreaker or move a slider and your future matches shift to match the new you. If you want to know what’s being compared, see how does matching work?

What you can’t quietly change is your verified identity — that stays fixed on purpose, so everyone stays real.

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