how do i delete my account?

updated 21 July 2026

However you got here, leaving is quick and it’s clean.

the steps

settings → account → delete account. Confirm once, and that’s it. No retention hoops, no “are you really sure” maze, no support call to sit through.

what gets removed

All of it. Your profile, your matches, your chats and messages — gone with the account, not quietly archived somewhere. Under Dutch and EU data law you have the right to be forgotten, and we treat it as exactly that.

before you go

  • want a copy of your data first? You can export it from the same account screen before you delete.
  • deleting is permanent — matches and conversations can’t be brought back afterwards, so grab anything you want to keep.

The full detail of what we store and for how long is in our privacy policy. And if you’re leaving because something went wrong, tell us — we read every note and we’d rather fix it.

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